Ladies,advice pls-It's confusing!?

Wow - I'm now as confused as you! Get over it, if you are now friends that's what you wanted isn't it? You just need to learn about being friends with each other again - enjoying each others company etc. If you cannot get over what happened in the past you will never be able to move on. Personally, I think you need to (a) be friends or (b) don't be friends - it really is as simple as that - don't read too much into it,